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51:49 Rule

51:49 Rule

The 51:49 rule means that whatever happens to you at every moment in life,
  1. You contribute to 51% (Major)
  2. External factors contribute the other 49%  (Minor)
The 51 and 49 numbers are arbitrary. The numbers could’ve been 60:40, 75:25 or whatever. The point is one number is always higher than the other. One part has greater influence than the other. One part is more powerful than the other. One part actually determines your daily experience!

The higher number means you’re 100% responsible for whatever is going on in your life. You’re ultimately accountable for all of the results in your life because you’ve created them. You’ve attracted them into your life. There are many outside influences and situations constantly testing your resolve and you don’t have to allow them to put you into a negative mentality. If they do, you have choice to erase them.

"10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react."  ~ Stephen Covey

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