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Love your wife. Treat her as Queen.

Love her… when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you. Love her… when she “pushes” you to pray. She wants to be with you in Paradise. Love her… when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own. Love her… when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you. Love her… when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too. Love her… when her cooking is bad. She tries. Love her… when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again. Love her… when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home. Love her… when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she’s beautiful. Love her… when she looks beautiful. She’s yours, so appreciate her. Love her… when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you. Love her… when she buys you gifts you

The Cockroach Theory for Self Development - Don't React, Respond.

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.  She started screaming out of fear.  With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ... it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama. The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt. When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant. Was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behaviour? If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?  He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos. It is no

Boiling Frog Syndrome - Boiling a frog with out his knowing it.

Boiling a Frog Without His Knowing It. No sensation with an extremely slow rate of change .  The premise is that if a frog is placed in boiling water, it will jump out, but if it is placed in cold water that is slowly heated, it will not perceive the danger and will be cooked to death.  While the results of the experiment are in question , t he story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur gradually . Full Story: Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating the water… As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly… The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature… Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust any more… At that point the frog decides to jump out… The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it lost all its strength in adjusting with the water temperature… Very soon